The Kochi-based Ramesh Menon, founder of Save The Loom,
talks about his varied experiences
Pics: Ramesh Menon; Sushmita Sen (centre) with the 1994 Miss
India title. Aishwarya Rai, first runner-up is on the left; Ramesh Menon (second from left) with a
friend (extreme left) and Sushmita Sen (extreme right) with her then boyfriend
Rajat Tare in Mumbai
By Shevlin Sebastian
When freelance journalist Ramesh Menon was a child, his
elder brother Suresh used to write in the ‘letters to the editor’ column of the
local newspaper. Ramesh found it fascinating to see his brother’s byline. At
that time he lived in Chandigarh where his father worked in the ACC cement
company.
Ramesh was a student of the DAV School. He first
contributed to the school magazine with an essay called ‘My trip to Cape
Comorin’. He was ten years old when he got his first byline. “It was a big
thrill,” he says. He also started writing letters to the sports page of ‘The
Tribune’. He kept doing it.
As he grew older, he also wrote in magazines like
‘Sportsweek’, ‘Sportsworld’, ‘India Today’ and ‘Illustrated Weekly’. By the
time Ramesh reached Class 10, he had 3000 published letters.
So, it was no surprise Ramesh moved smoothly into a
freelancing career. Thanks to that, for the next ten years, he had a series of
unforgettable adventures...
Once, as a teenager, when Ramesh came to Kochi for his
holidays with his parents, he read in the newspaper about a function being held
in honour of Mollywood legend Prem Nazir at the TDM Hall. So, Ramesh went for
it. He got access by saying he was from the press. He met Prem Nazir and
Mohanlal. Ramesh asked Mohanlal for an interview.
Mohanlal said he was shooting for a film in Ambalamugal.
And Ramesh could come there the next day.
The next day, Ramesh went to the location and got in touch
with Mohanlal’s assistant manager Rajan.
After waiting for three hours, Mohanlal gave the interview.
Ramesh says, “Not for one moment did he behave with me as if I was not a
professional. He was polite, kind and warm. He talked to me nicely even though
he was a superstar.”
Even before he turned 18, Ramesh went to cover the 1990 Beijing
Asian Games as a freelancer. In China, he was the youngest, out of 5438
journalists. A medal was presented to him. Ramesh was given an Indian jacket
and became part of the delegation that took part in the march past.
One highlight of the Games for him was when he went to the
Great Wall of China with Indian athletic stars PT Usha, Shiny Wilson and
Ashwini Nachappa.
But Ramesh felt nervous. Before the start of the games,
Ramesh and freelance photographer Pankaj Sharma had gone to the national camp
which was held at the Sports Authority of India in Bangalore.
Usha was training, under the guidance of her coach OM
Nambiar. A senior New-Delhi-based woman journalist named Ritu Sarin had come to
interview Usha. Ramesh was standing nearby. The athlete spoke in Malayalam and
Nambiar did the translation. When Ritu asked a particular question, Usha said,
“These press people will even kill me to get their headlines.”
Naturally, Nambiar didn’t translate it. “But I heard it,”
said Ramesh. He sent a story to the Kolkata-based Sportsworld magazine with
this quote. This became the headline of the cover story.
So, Ramesh was scared to face Usha.
At the Great Wall, Usha said, “You are the one who created
so many problems for me.”
Ramesh defended himself by saying, “You said it.”
Usha smiled.
In February 1991, the World Cup hockey championship was
taking place in Lahore. Ramesh planned to cover it for the ‘Punjab Kesari’
newspaper. From Delhi, he took a bus to the Wagah border. When he entered the
Pakistan immigration centre, they checked his luggage. Ramesh had a few film
magazines. They set it aside.
Then they called a senior officer and showed him the
magazines.
The officer said. “We do not allow this.”
Ramesh said he is a journalist, so some magazines will
always be with him.
“Sorry, we cannot allow it,” said the officer.
Ramesh did not protest when they confiscated the magazines.
He took a taxi and went to Lahore 30 km away.
But later, he came to know the reason for this. “There was
a huge black market for Indian film magazines,” he says. “Most probably, they
would have sold it and made a tidy profit.”
When Miss India Madhu Sapre went to take part in the Miss
Universe pageant at the Queen Sirikit National Convention Centre in Bangkok, in
1992, Ramesh was the only Indian journalist present.
Against all expectations, Madhu won the second runners-up
title. Ramesh got an exclusive interview. He also flew with Madhu when they
returned to Mumbai.
At the Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj International Airport,
Mumbai, Madhu held up the gold-plated trophy. But she was stopped at Customs.
Madhu said, “I won this trophy at the Miss Universe competition.”
The officer said, “People give many excuses. But too much
gold smuggling is taking place these days.”
So, she had to show all the brochures and photos before
they were convinced.
Ramesh went along with her to her home at Andheri (East).
There was a pooja. He took some exclusive photos. After Ramesh wrote the story,
he sold the story, as well as the photos, including the history of the pageant
to 47 publications all over the country, including Femina, the official
organisers of the pageant and in multiple languages.
The 1994 Miss India contest, conducted by the Times of
India group, was coming up. But the word was that Bollywood, as well as the fashion
industry wanted Aishwarya Rai to win.
“Most ambitious girls dropped out thinking there was no
chance,” says Ramesh. “The gorgeous-looking Aishwarya had made a name as a
model.”
In a nightclub in Delhi, a few days before the event,
Ramesh met Ranjan Bakshi who was the regional marketing head of Times of India.
In front of Ramesh, Ranjan told a few local models to apply, but they refused.
However, one lanky model said she would take part. Her name was Sushmita Sen.
Ramesh had already met Sushmita. He was sitting with
fashion photographer Suvo Das at his studio in Delhi when a girl walked in
asking that a portfolio be done. It was Sushmita. Ramesh and Sushmita bonded
because of their mutual love for writing.
Sushmita told Ramesh the reason behind her participation.
Her mother had told her, “Beta, there is something called upsets. Life is all
about that. It can happen to the best.”
Sushmita had no money. So, she went to Janpath and bought
some clothes.
In the contest, after several rounds, they announced the
Top Five. Backstage, the make-up and dress designers fussed over Aishwarya.
Sushmita got angry and said, “Why do you favour one person? We have all
struggled and come. All five should be treated equally.”
In the last round, Ramesh says, when you see the footage,
Sushmita is coming up to the stage crying. That round went into a tie for the
first time in the 42-year history of Miss India. They had to call Aishwarya and
Sushmita back and answer a question once more.
Designer Ritu Kumar asked Sushmita, “What do you know about
the textile heritage of your country? How old has it been and what do you
prefer to wear personally?”
Sushmita said, “Maam, I will answer it section by section.”
Then she paused and said, “I think it all started with
Mahatma Gandhi’s khadi. It has gone a long way since then, but the basics of
Indian textile heritage lie in there. To answer the second part, I wouldn’t say
it's khadi, but I like ethnic clothes, traditional Indian outfits because I
personally feel I can carry them off very well, but otherwise I have a lot of
western outfits as well.”
When the marks of the judges were tallied, as Sushmita’s
mom predicted, an upset had taken place. Sushmita scored 9.4 to Aishwarya’s
9.39 on a scale of 10.
“It was as close as PT Usha losing her bronze medal in the
400m hurdles at the 1984 Los Angeles Olympic Games,” says Ramesh with a smile.
Sushmita returned to Delhi.
A few later, Ramesh met her and did an interview.
Three weeks later, on February 12, Ramesh flew to Mumbai to
cover the Filmfare awards. While there, he went to the Midday office and met
the editor of the Sunday magazine, Carlos Monteiro. Ramesh gave him the
transcript and the tapes of the interview with Sushmita.
The next Sunday, the magazine headline said, “Aishwarya
doesn’t deserve to win what she won,” says Sushmita Sen.
The publisher of the Times of India, which conducts the
Miss India show, called Sushmita and shouted, “Who the hell told you to give
that interview? I will take your crown back.”
Sushmita did not know what had happened.
She started crying.
She called Ramesh and said, “You messed it up for me.”
Sushmita, Ramesh and her then-boyfriend Rajat Tare met at a
cafe. There, Sushmita composed a hand-written letter in which she wrote, ‘My
apologies. Ramesh is a dear friend, Whatever we spoke was in a personal
capacity. It was also misconstrued.’ This was faxed to the publisher.
The publisher called Ramesh and said, “You give me a
statement stating that ‘Midday’ twisted your words. I will allow you to write
for ‘Times of India’.”
Ramesh said, “I am a small journalist. I am not working
with anybody. I cannot deny a tape which I had surrendered to ‘Mid-Day’. It’s
unfair to my reputation. My hands are tied. So I’ll suffer not writing for
‘Times of India’ and stand by my story.”
It’s not only beauty queens that Ramesh met, but bandit
queens also. Once when he went to do a story at New Delhi’s Tihar Jail, in
1994, he got a tip that dreaded dacoit Phoolan Devi was going to be released
the next day, after an 11-year jail term. Using his jail contacts, Ramesh came
to know that Phoolan would be going to her uncle’s house at Kingsway Camp. So
the next afternoon, Ramesh and photographer Pankaj Sharma went directly to the
house. Phoolan was at home. She was sitting cross-legged on a coir cot in a
saree.
“She had a pleasant smile on her face,” says Ramesh.
It was difficult for Ramesh to reconcile this simple woman
sitting in front of him, looking so harmless, as being the dreaded leader of a
dacoit gang which had killed 22 men during a massacre at Behmai village in
Uttar Pradesh on February 14, 1981. “She looked like any woman from the rural
areas,” he says. “If she walked past you on the road, you would not look at her
twice.”
When Ramesh asked what freedom meant to her Phoolan said,
“I am starting anew. It is going to be a new life.”
For Ramesh, this meeting with Phoolan was a scoop. “No
other media was present,” he says. “All of them came to know a day later.”
Later, Phoolan entered politics and became a two-time
Member of Parliament from Mirzapur as a member of the Samajwadi Party.
However, tragedy struck, when, on July 26, 2001, Phoolan
was shot dead by three masked assailants. One of the killers Sher Singh Rana
was sentenced to life imprisonment in 2014.
As for Ramesh, these days, he has moved in a new direction.
He runs the non-profit community group, ‘Save The Loom’, which aims to revive
the handloom industry in India.
(Published in Mathrubhumi -- English edition)