Photos: Curator Nikhil Chopra; the theme of the Biennale; Assamese artist Dhiraj Rabha with his work; Kerala artist KB Shajith's 'WipingOut'; ‘The Parliament of Ghosts’ by Ibrahim Mahama of Ghana
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Sunday, January 18, 2026
Art That Changes You from Within (A Journey Through the 6th Kochi-Muziris Biennale)
Photos: Curator Nikhil Chopra; the theme of the Biennale; Assamese artist Dhiraj Rabha with his work; Kerala artist KB Shajith's 'WipingOut'; ‘The Parliament of Ghosts’ by Ibrahim Mahama of Ghana
Wednesday, January 14, 2026
Many thanks to South First for their coverage of the Thajudheen case
Sunday, January 11, 2026
A book, 'The Stolen Necklace', that played a role in a landmark court judgement
Caption: V. K Thajudheen (left) and Shevlin Sebastian
These are some of the conclusions:
The court ordered the State Government to pay a total of ₹14 lakh
in compensation.
- ₹10
lakh for V.K. Thajudheen for his illegal arrest, loss of job, and mental
agony.
- ₹1
lakh each for his wife and three children (total ₹4
lakh) for the defamation and harassment they endured.
The court explicitly stated that the state is free to recover
this compensation amount from the specific police officers responsible (SI P.
Biju and ASIs Yogesh and T. Unnikrishnan).
The court noted that this award does not prevent Thajudheen
from pursuing further civil lawsuits against the officers for larger damages.
On May 2023, my book, in collaboration with Thajudheen,
called ‘The Stolen Necklace’ was published by HarperCollins detailing the
trauma that he and his family went through.
Asaf Ali told me recently that he had submitted the book to
the judge among many other materials.
He feels the book played a role in this judgement. So, I am
happy I was able to play a role.
Here’s what chief sub editor and senior reporter Ronnie
Kuriakose wrote in The New Indian Express:
A 2023 book, The Stolen Necklace by former TNIE staffer
Shevlin Sebastian, depicting the travails of Thajudheen, played its part in the
case. “The book was submitted in court to make the point that the incident was
no ordinary arrest, but one that gained national media attention.
It presented the telltale circumstances of the incident. And
from my understanding, the court did appreciate what it conveyed,” Asaf Ali
said.
On this, Thajudheen said, "I’m glad that the book, which
tells my story, has helped." He also recalled sitting down with Shevlin to
write. “We met every day for six months. He used to come with a flask of hot
tea, and we’d sit for hours poring over the notes in discussions. Recalling
some memories even brought tears to my eyes,” Thajudheen said.
Later, in 2022, the book was pitched to publishers and
received positive responses. “It did well, but I did not imagine it would make
its way to my defence in court as well,” he added.
The book, in addition to narrating the incident, also charts
Thajudheen life, his aspirations, and how it was all derailed because of a
single day. “It’s my life story. My past, present, and a robbed future,”
Thajudheen concluded.
Speaking to TNIE on the development, the writer Shevlin said,
“I’m so happy. Thajudheen’s whole life had come to a juddering halt because of
the incident. This verdict is the first ray of light in his life after so long.
I also think it will be a deterrent to police offices and put a stop to their
excesses. I’m happy the book played a small role.”
May thanks to the Kerala media for extensive coverage of this
ruling in print, online, radio and TV.
Wednesday, January 07, 2026
From the Centre to the Margins (Life in an Upscale Retirement Home)
“60 is so young,” said the shocked visitor.
“Yes, but she couldn't handle her husband’s sudden death.”
At the upscale retirement home I visited recently, in Kochi, each door represents a life story. Some never expected to be here. Others opted for it. But with monthly rents of five and six figures, they are all well-to-do.
Many had lived abroad and had been successful doctors, engineers, architects, professors, and entrepreneurs. For long they had been in the centre of their universe. But everybody had to succumb to tempus fugit (‘time flies’ in Latin).
From the centre they have been gently pushed to the margins. Because of old age, and mostly, physical frailty. A plaque for long years of service. Handshakes and hugs. Cakes and wine. Loud laughter. And then silence. Which stretches into decades.
You can see some being pushed on wheelchairs. Others lean on walking sticks. An attender held the hand of a stiff-backed person taking tentative steps.
One couple is from California. “I wouldn’t say my husband is happy, but it’s better than being there. We had nobody to talk to. The problem in America is isolation.”
To combat loneliness, numerous activities are planned during the day. Card games. Knitting. Yoga. Music. Brain Gym. Physical gym. Swimming pool. Men and women gather. They talk with each other. They smile. But there are a few who remain isolated.
Deaths create havoc steadily. The husband might die; the wife now lives alone. Or the wife might die. “It’s very difficult for a man to live alone,” said a resident.
And when visitors visit the seriously elderly, in their nineties, the question is the same: do you know who I am?
The bedridden man or woman will stare at the visitor.
Sometimes, he blurts out the right name. There is wonder all around. How great was that?
One woman said, “My husband cannot tolerate any medicines.”
“You can put it in the food,” said a resident.
“I tried, but the moment he senses a change in the taste he spits the food out.”
People are left wondering about a possible solution.
I move around.
Another woman said, “Before I left for the US, I was docile and submissive. But when I went there, I was able to develop my talents. I became confident and outgoing. My husband just could not accept the new me.”
These are people of an older generation. Divorce was not an option. So, they chugged on. It probably makes sense.
One resident said, “When we are young, we feel we can live without our spouse. Divorce seems easy then. But at this stage, we cling to each other. There is nobody else.”
Another woman said, “Mothers today should teach their sons to cook, clean, and respect boundaries. Otherwise, there will be too many divorces. Young women are so evolved now.”
The women easily exchange notes about their life with each other. They get mental and psychological relief. But the men remain silent.
One resident worries about her daughter who is going to give birth in a few weeks. “Oh, how I wish I could be there. But I cannot leave my husband alone.” She said she had asked her daughter-in-law whether she could be there for a few days after the birth. But she has got a promotion and is finding it difficult to get leave.
Another woman remarked, “I saw her photo on Instagram. She’s got a big stomach.”
“Yes,” the mother said, with a glowing smile.
One resident said, “I take part in a group prayer on Zoom. Once a week, I have to give a commentary. I prepare but the speech I give is an inspired one. A spirit enters me and I speak. It’s magical.”
Her eyes are suffused with wonder.
The listener thinks, “This could be divine energy, or the unconscious mind.”
Several live in the past – dwelling on achievements, career highs, their busyness. In all this, the children are missing. Many are abroad, busy building careers the way their parents did. They have children, a mortgage, and career ambitions. The arc will remain the same. One day, they will also reach the retirement home and their children will carry on the cycle of life.
It’s an immaculate place. The floors are swept often. The washrooms are scented. The lawns are mowed. The tiled pathways have been cleared of falling leaves. There are large trees all around. The sky is blue. The leaves rustle in an afternoon breeze. The food is tasty. The staff move with a smile on their faces.
But most residents have a look in their eyes which states, “Too many years have passed. We are closer to the exit.”
For younger visitors, it’s an unsettling preview of what lies ahead. But to live like this, it may be better to have a chest full of currency. Preferably dollars or euros. Otherwise, it’s going to be an agonising time.


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