COLUMN: Spouse's Turn
Louhanath
talks about life with the singer Cochin Mansoor
By
Shevlin Sebastian
Photos by Suresh Nambudiri
On
August 8, 1990, Cochin Mansoor went to meet Louhanath at her home in
Cheranalloor. “The first thing that struck me about him was his
large moustache,” says Louhanath. “He wore colourful clothing:
dark green shirt and a cream pant.”
Mansoor
said, “What is your name?”
Louhanath
smiled and remained silent.
“You
are shy,” said the singer. “Let me tell you about myself. My name
is Mansoor. I work in Cochin Stars troupe. I am 5' 6” tall. I stay
near the Kaloor bus stand. These are my details.”
Louhanath
smiled and thought to herself, ‘I like the way he speaks’.
And
Mansoor also liked her. This was the first girl that he had met. They
both said yes. But there was a delay of more than a year for the
marriage. That was because Mansoor’s niece had suffered an accident
and he also had a busy singing schedule. Eventually, the wedding took
place on December 22, 1991, at Cheranaloor.
One
day, after the marriage, Mansoor had a programme at Eloor.
Thereafter, he went to Thiruvananthapuram and many other places. “My
relatives teased me by saying that my husband had gone missing,”
says a smiling Louhanath.
It
was only on December 31, that Mansoor took Louhanath to see a mimicry
show at Edapally in which he was taking part. And when Louhanath saw
Mansoor performing, she immediately realized he is a talented person.
“In one segment, he dressed up as a wife who was having problems
with her husband,” says Louhanath. “It was quite funny.”
But
today, Mansoor is known as a singer of the Malayalam hits of the
1960, 70s and 80s. In fact, he has an unbelievable repertoire of 7800
songs. “Anybody can ask him about any song and he can tell the name
of the singer, music composer, the actors, the name of the film and
the year,” says Louhanath. “But he loves best the songs of
Vayalar [Ramavarma]. In fact, I tell him he has two fathers: bapa and
achan. Bapa is his own father, while achan is Vayalar Sir.”
Meanwhile,
when asked about his plus points, Louhanath says, “Mansoor is a
laid-back person and very caring of our children [college students
Rehana, 22, and Shahana, 18]. When they were small, he would buy them
so many toys. Whenever he returns from a programme, he will always
bring gifts. And the girls would look forward to it.”
As
for his negative points, whenever Mansoor and Louhanath have a fight,
he will not speak for the next few days. “He told me that he does
not want to argue, because that will strain his vocal chords,” says
Louhanath. “So he remains silent.”
Mansoor
is very careful about his voice. “Whenever he goes for a programme,
he takes hot water in a flask,” says Louhanath. “Mansoor avoids
sunlight at all costs, as he believes that it will affect his voice.
So he always goes out with an umbrella. And even when it is sunny, on
his morning walk, he will open his umbrella. And people do find it
odd. His friends tease him about it. When he goes to sleep, he puts
cotton in his ears, because the fan is switched on and he does not
want to catch a cold. On my part, I avoid giving him cold food.”
But
this beautiful voice came under tremendous strain, on November 29,
2009, when Mansoor attempted to set a Guinness Book of World Records,
by singing non-stop for 24 hours on an open stage at Changampuzha
Park, Kochi. But his effort lasted for 19 ½ hours. The problem was
that since it was held in November, there was a lot of fog and mist
at night and that affected his voice.
“At
the 19th hour,
Dasettan [Yesudas], who was monitoring the performance from America,
with the help of a friend, Benny, called and said Mansoor should
stop, otherwise his voice will get damaged,” says Louhanath.
Mansoor
attempted one last song, the classic ‘Periyare’, which was a
request from the then Forest Minister Binoy Viswam. But he was unable
to carry on.
Mansoor
was then admitted to Punarnava Ayurveda hospital. “There was a fear
among the people that Mansoor would lose his voice,” says
Louhanath. “It was an anxious time for me. I prayed very hard to
God to save his voice. Many people went and prayed at the mosque.”
Medicine
was rubbed on Mansoor's neck. For three days, he had to remain
silent. “Finally, by God’s grace, on the fifth day he recovered
his voice,” says Louhanath.
It
took Louhanath some time to recover from the experience. “It is not
easy to live with an artist,” she says. But Louhanath has found an
outlet. For the past ten years, she has been working in a play
school, ‘Little Gems’, which is near Amrita Hospital. “I feel
happy and peaceful when I am with the children,” she says.
Finally,
when asked to give tips for a successful marriage, Louhanath says,
“You should adjust to the shortcomings of your spouse. Nobody is
perfect. As an artist my husband meets lots of people, men and women.
But I don't ask him about each and every person. I trust him. It is
important to have trust in each other. Otherwise, it will create
problems in the marriage.”
(The
New Indian Express, Kochi and Thiruvananthapuram)
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