Joby
Mathew, who is 3'5” tall, won five gold medals at the World Dwarf
Games recently. In total, he has won 16 international medals
Photo by Mithun Vinod
By
Shevlin Sebastian
“I will
always be grateful to 'The New Indian Express',” says Joby Mathew,
the dwarf world champion. An article on Joby was published in the
newspaper, in 2005, with a request for sponsorship, along with the
sportsman’s phone number. Joby wanted to take part in the world arm
wrestling championships held at Utsunomiya, Japan.
Many
people called to provide support, but only one person offered
concrete help. And that turned out to be the Tamil actor Sharath
Kumar.
“I found
it difficult to believe that a superstar like Sharath Sir would call
an ordinary person like me,” says Joby. Eventually, when Sharath
came to Kochi for the shoot of the film, 'Khaki', they met, and the
actor provided the Rs 1 lakh that was needed.
When Joby
landed at Kuala Lumpur airport, on route to Tokyo, he went across the
terminal to get his connecting flight. But when Joby walks, it is
like a jump, and he uses his muscular left hand as a pivot. Joby, who
has a height of 3’ 5”, was born with Proximal Femoral Focal
Deficiency. That means his feet are tiny while his upper body is like
a normal adult’s. In fact, he has only four toes on either feet.
Soon, he
was followed by a group of two women and a man, pushing a wheelchair.
Thinking that it was an emergency, he stepped to one side, so that
they could go past. But they also stopped. When Joby started walking
again, they followed him. Then one woman said, “Please get onto the
wheelchair.”
Joby
replied that he did not need one. Despite saying this, when he began
walking again, they followed him. So, to mollify them, he got onto
the wheelchair.
But at the
world championships, Joby showed that he was not disabled at all. He
won three bronze medals in the normal as well as the
differently-abled category. Thereafter, till 2012, he won 11 gold,
silver and bronze medals in world championships held in Spain and
Egypt, including a silver at a paralympic badminton tournament in Tel
Aviv, Israel, in 2010.
Joby burst
into the limelight recently when he won an unprecedented five golds –
shot put, javelin, discus, and singles and doubles badminton – at
the World Dwarf Games held at Michigan State University in August.
To
achieve this extraordinary feat, Joby had been training non-stop for
four years. Every morning, from his home in Aluva, 26 kms from Kochi,
he goes to swim in the nearby Periyar River for 45 minutes.
Interestingly, he can only use his upper body to swim, since there is
no movement in his legs.
“Thereafter,
I go to a nearby gym to train under K.V. Chitrangathan, a former Mr.
Kerala,” says Joby, who also practises the shot-put, javelin and
discus. Once a month, Joby will drive down to Bangalore in his
specially-made Santro to get training from Ramesh Tikaram, a winner
of the Arjuna Award for athletics and badminton. “Joby is
determined, focused, and naturally talented,” says Ramesh. “What
I like about him is his willingness to accept and correct his
mistakes.”
Apart
from all this, Joby holds a regular job. “During
the day, I work in the legal wing of Bharat Petroleum Corporation Ltd
[BPCL],” says Joby, who has a MA, as well as a law degree. “It is
the BPCL which has been sponsoring my participation in all
international tournaments since 2008.”
And
on the personal front, he is also happy. In 2007, he met the
Mohiniyattam
and Bharatanatyam dancer,
as well as research scholar, Megha Pillai, who is 5’5”, at a
seminar. Within months, they became friends. “I proposed to Megha
and she accepted, although she is a Hindu, while I am a Christian,”
says Joby. The couple tied the knot on November 16, 2008. Today, they
are parents to four-year-old Jyothis.
When
asked the secret of success, Joby says, “We should understand and
accept our strengths and weaknesses. That can only happen if we love
ourselves. I told myself, ‘I don’t have legs, but I do have hands
and can make use of that!’ However, to achieve anything, you also
need the help of God.”
(Sunday Magazine, The New Indian Express, South India and Delhi)
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