Rema
talks about her late husband, the politician TP Chandrasekharan
By
Shevlin Sebastian
KK
Rema was in Class 10 when she saw TP Chandrasekharan for the first
time. He had come to their home in Naduvannur in Kozhikode
district with Rema's elder sister Prema. Both of them were members of
the Students Federation of India (SFI). A year later, in 1989, when
Rema secured admission to the pre-degree course at the Guruvayurappan
College in Kozhikode, she also joined the SFI. Politics ran in the
family. Her father, K K Madhavan was a former area committee
secretary of the Communist Party of India Marxist (CPM) as well as
the president of the Naduvannur panchayat.
Rema
and Chandrasekharan would meet each other at rallies and protests. By
this time, Chandrasekharan had become a state committee member of the
Democratic Youth Federation of India (DYFI).
“Initially,
I was not attracted to Chandretten,” says Rema. “He seemed
like a tough person. I never felt free when I was with him.”
But
they became close when they met at a woman's camp in Kottayam
organised by the DYFI. Sometime later, KP Chandran, (DYFI Zilla
Committee member at Kozhikode), told Rema that Chandrasekharan wanted
to marry her. Rema asked for some time. Later, the CPM party members
spoke to Rema's parents. “They, along with my sisters, were happy
about it,” says Rema. “But my relatives were apprehensive since
Chandretten did not have a job.”
Anyway,
the marriage took place at the Vadakara Town Hall on October 16,
1994. There was a significant age-difference between the couple.
While Chadrasekharan was 33, Rema was 23.
It
was a simple wedding: just an exchange of garlands. Thereafter,
guests were given a piece of cake and a cup of tea. They did not have
a chance to go for a honeymoon, because, on November 25, the
Koothuparamba firing took place. Five DYFI activists died due to
police firing because of their protest against former CPI(M) leader
MV Raghavan. “So Chandretten had to go underground,” says Rema.
“But much later he took me to Ooty and Kodaikanal.”
Asked
about her husband's qualities, Rema says, “It was only after my
marriage that I felt so free and happy. He gave me respect and
freedom. I did not have to ask his permission to do anything.
Chandretten was so caring.”
Six
months after their marriage, Rema was alone at home, when she began
to have severe stomach pains. It was late at night. Chandrasekharan
had gone to another town, 10 kms away, for a function. There was no
phone at home. So Rema went to the neighbour’s house and called
him. Chandrasekahan said he would come immediately. But because it
was so late, he could not get a vehicle. So he walked the entire
distance so that he could be with Rema. “I have never forgotten
that incident,” she says.
Whenever
Chandrasekharan would be at home, he helped in the kitchen. “He
could make tasty chicken, fish, squid and crab curries,” says Rema.
“During Vishu and Onam, he would do all the cooking. Chandretten
was also good at making milk payasam, which he would distribute to
the children near our house.”
Perhaps
his only drawback was that he had a short temper. “He would get
angry suddenly,” says Rema. “But we made up quickly.”
The
couple's most thrilling moment occurred when their son, Nandu, was
born on January 13, 1996. “Chandretten told me he wanted children
as soon as we got married,” says Rema. “That was why he was so
happy. I remember when I stepped out of the room at the Kozhikode
Medical College, since there were many people present, he could not
show his excitement. So, he pressed my hand very hard.”
The
years began to go past. In 2009, Chandrasekharan decided to float his
own political outfit, the Revolutionary Marxist Party (RMP), because
he felt that the CPM had moved away from its ideology. But Rema was
apprehensive. “I felt a certainty within me that the CPM would harm
him,” says Rema. She expressed her worries to Chandrasekharan, but
he was determined to go ahead. “Once he makes a decision he goes
ahead, irrespective of the consequences,” says Rema. It seemed to
be the right move, because, in 2010, the RMP won the panchayat
elections in Onchiyam and neighbouring villages.
But
it all came crashing down on May 4, 2012. At 7 p.m., Rema called
Chandrasekharan, 52, who was at the place called Vallikad. “I spoke
to him about getting the keys of a bank safety locker,” says Rema.
“Chandretten then told me he would be late.”
At 11
p.m., Chandrasekharan's close friend Jaffer called and asked for the
number of the motorbike. “Immediately I suspected that something
was wrong,” says Rema. “I called Chandretten, but got an engaged
tone. I called many times but could not get through. I felt that he
was involved in an accident. I never imagined that he would be
murdered. There were no fights with the CPM at that time. Everything
was peaceful. So the murder came as a shock.”
The
brutal killing shocked Kerala. Chandrasekharan had been accosted by a
group of men, and had received more than 50 stab wounds. He died
instantly. The verdict of the murder case will be pronounced on
January 22. Today, Rema works at the Vadakara Co-operative Bank,
while Nandu is a first-year mechanical engineering student at the TKM
College of Engineering at Kollam.
(The New Indian Express, Kochi and Thiruvananthapuram)
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