COLUMN:
Spouse’s Turn
Along the way, people from the film industry, like director Vijayan, Sanal Kumar, and P. Radhakrishnan joined in. The group reached Kanyakumari at 2 a.m. There were no rooms at the Ayyappa lodge that they went to. “Eventually, we got a servants’ dormitory on the terrace,” says Menaka. “Later, when we told this to Priyadarshan he showcased this scene in ‘Mithunam’, which stars Mohan Lal.”
Actress
Menaka talks about life with producer Suresh Kumar
By
Shevlin Sebastian
When
producer Suresh Kumar saw the actress Menaka, she was not even aware
of it. Suresh, along with the director, Priyadarshan, had gone to
Menaka’s house in Chennai to get her to commit for the Tamil film,
‘Karaiyai Thodathe Alaigal’. “My father told them I was
unwell,” says Menaka. “Suresh told me later he saw me lying in
the bedroom, wearing a pink chiffon nightgown. He said that since he
was a big fan, he had wanted to see me. That was why he had come to
the house with Priyadarshan.”
But
they spoke often on the sets of the 1984 film, ‘Poochakkoru
Mookkuthi’, in which Suresh was the producer. During the shoot,
Menaka realised that Suresh was very finicky about what he ate. One
day, after pack-up time, they returned to the Amrita Hotel in
Thiruvananthapuram, where they were staying. While going up in the
elevator, Menaka said, “Suresh, it is very dangerous to be so
particular about the food. Before you marry you should take the girl
to your home and get her taught by your mum, otherwise it is going to
be very difficult for her.”
Suresh
smiled and said, “So, when are you coming to my home to have a
practice?”
That
was when Menaka realised that Suresh had feelings for her. “I
called my mum, told her what happened, and confessed my own love for
Suresh,” says Menaka. “I liked him very much.”
But
it was not going to be an easy match. While Menaka belongs to a
conservative Tamil Brahmin Iyengar family, who are strictly
vegetarian, Suresh is a Nair who eats non-vegetarian food. Anyway, it
took four years before the marriage took place, at the Lord Krishna
temple, at Guruvayur, on October 27, 1987.
For
their honeymoon, Suresh had dramatically opened a world map and
placed it on the floor. He pointed at several places in Europe and
America, but in the end they went to Kanyakumari. In the car, there
was Suresh, his brother, wife and son, apart from Menaka.
Along the way, people from the film industry, like director Vijayan, Sanal Kumar, and P. Radhakrishnan joined in. The group reached Kanyakumari at 2 a.m. There were no rooms at the Ayyappa lodge that they went to. “Eventually, we got a servants’ dormitory on the terrace,” says Menaka. “Later, when we told this to Priyadarshan he showcased this scene in ‘Mithunam’, which stars Mohan Lal.”
For
Menaka, Suresh is her star. “He cares a lot about me and the
children, and my family,” she says. “He has a helping tendency.
If a friend and I are facing some problems, he will solve the issues
of the friend first. He knows that I will wait and understand.”
And,
she says, Suresh treats her like a queen. “I have no work in the
house at all,” she says. “I have maids hence I don’t need to
suffer in the kitchen. Even for buying vegetables, I have people. But
I would tell him that every 15 days we should go out together and buy
some household things.”
They
did it only once in a while because Suresh is very active in his
career. There are times when he has his food, while Menaka serves
him. “But when I start having my dinner, he will leave,”
she says. “So, nowadays, I lock the dining room door and keep the
key with me. I tell him, ‘Please wait till I finish my dinner. I am
alone. [Their two daughters, Revathi, 24, and Keerthi, 20, are
working and studying respectively]. Please look at my face and go’.
He laughs, but is helpless at the same time. He is just too busy.”
But
there were times when they were together constantly. That was when
they went on a four-month trip to the USA in 1988, as part of an All
Stars programme.
The
other members included Shankar, Shahnawaz, Prem Nazir, Kuthiravattam
Pappu and Nadia Moidu. “The programmes would be held on Saturday
and Sunday,” says Menaka. “During the week we went sight-seeing
in places like New York, Chicago, Michigan, Los Angeles, and Dallas.”
But
since Menaka only ate vegetarian food, there was a constant quest for
it in non-vegetarian America. But many times Suresh would forget
about it. “I was crying because I could not get my type of food,”
says Menaka. “Finally, it was Prem Nazir who bought me many dishes.
He said, ‘Suresh is a nice person, but he is only four years older
than you, and that is why he is forgets. Whatever you want, I will
get it.’”
(The New Indian Express, Kochi and Thiruvananthapuram)
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