Dr
Mathew Kuruvilla, of the NGO, Reach World Wide talks about their
project of rehabilitating criminals
Photos: Mathew Kuruvilla; P. Lalji. Pics by Albin Mathew
By
Shevlin Sebastian
It is
a rainy July afternoon in Kottayam, Kerala. Standing outside his
office of the NGO Reach World Wide (RWW), the founder Dr. Mathew
Kuruvilla points at a canopy of trees, in translucent green that
stretches hundreds of metres on the opposite side. “Isn’t it
beautiful?” he says, with a smile.
Kuruvilla
has plenty to smile about, apart from the beauty of nature. He is
celebrating the tenth anniversary of RWW’s remarkable criminal
rehabilitation programme. “More than 700 criminals have been
saved,” he says. “They now lead straight lives, with a good
family life and enjoy a peaceful sleep at night.”
The
programme began rather accidentally. One day a woman, Anita, in
Kuruvilla’s neighbourhood came and told him that when her husband
Shibu would come home on parole, he would beat her up. So, Kuruvilla
met Shibu in the jail and told him, “When your children grow up how
will they describe you? Won’t they say, ‘My father is a criminal
as well as a murderer’?”
It
was a stunning opening gambit. Shibu grabbed Kuruvilla’s feet and
said, “Sir, please save me.” Kuruvilla replied, “I will.
Remember Shibu let us try to leave good footprints behind in our
lives.”
And
thus the programme began. The convicts are taught that when calls
come from their former associates, they should politely say that they
will call back and cut the call. “Most of the time when they start
drinking they have a tendency to meet old friends,” says Kuruvilla.
“This happens in the evening. So at that time, we conduct a lot of
activities to divert their attention.”
Also,
to convince them, RWW uses former prisoners as counsellors. “The
just-released prisoners listen far more carefully to former
convicts,” says Kuruvilla. “Eventually, they feel emboldened to
go down the straight path.”
One
man who did so was P. Lalji, a stocky forty-year-old. At the RWW
office, he recounts a memory from his youth: it was a Good Friday
afternoon. From a distance, Lalji saw Manoj. He moved forward and in
one smooth movement, he swung the sickle on Manoj’s arm.
Apparently,
Manoj had attacked Lalji’s father regarding a debt and the son had
taken revenge.
In the end, Lalji used the sickle 30 times. Lalji was
duly arrested and sent to jail. But there was nobody to come forward
as a witness, thanks to Lalji's political connections. So, the case
fell apart. Thankfully, Manoj survived. So, Lalji was freed after a
few weeks.
But
for the next sixteen years, Lalji went in and out of prison. “Many
a time I did the dirty work of political parties, as a member of a
gang,” he says. “Then people would give us money to harass and
intimidate their rivals. It was easy cash, but there was no peace of
mind. At night if I heard an unusual sound, I would wake up, my heart
beating fast, imagining that it was an enemy coming to kill me or a
policeman out to arrest me.”
In
the end, Lalji got tired of this violent life. It was at this moment
he met Ranjit Mathew, a staffer for RWW. “He told me that my life's
path was not correct,” says Lalji. “Ranjit would come to my house
often and talk to me. Slowly, I was able to break away from my
criminal activities and my addiction to alcohol and marijuana.”
Good
luck continued for Lalji. One day, a woman, Manju, who was working in
Saudi Arabia heard about Lalji's story from a friend. Amazingly, she
quit her job, came to Kottayam, met Lalji and said she would marry
him. Lalji accepted the proposal and today they have two children, a
girl, Abigail, 9, and a boy, Abhishek, 5. “God has been kind,”
says Lalji.
Incidentally,
apart from prisoner rehabilitation, RWW also has programmes for women
empowerment, feeding the hungry, building houses for the poor, and
cleaning the environment. “We depend on donations for our works,”
says Kuruvilla.
How it began
RWW
began in July, 2004 because of a specific incident. One
night, a local acquaintance Samuel Thomas (name changed) came to
Kuruvilla for monetary help. Unfortunately, Kuruvilla did not have
any money. This man had been a successful businessmen but his company
had gone bust.
Samuel began working in the same company which he had
owned at Rs 150 a day. But the creditors would take whatever money he
earned. Samuel told Kuruvilla he could not bear the sight of his
children going hungry. The next morning Kuruvilla learnt that Samuel
had committed suicide. “I decided then and there I would do
whatever it takes so that nobody goes hungry,” says Kuruvilla.
He
also had a personal experience of suffering. When Kuruvilla was 13,
his father died suddenly of a heart attack. As the eldest child, the
responsibility fell on him. “I had to look after my family which
included eight members,” he says. “I went to school but in the
evenings I worked as a door-to-door salesman. The rejections, the
'Get outs' that people shouted at me, it was all very painful. But,
as a result, I understand keenly the pain of others.”
When
ex-prisoners ask Kuruvilla, why they went through such harrowing
experiences, the latter says, “If you don’t go through the pain
of that situation how will you know the pain of others? How will you
know the pain of rejection? I tell them they have now discovered
their purpose in life.”